Hiring a SW is a beautiful thing. You can explore w/out judgement and see if it’s just a fantasy or a long term interest. SW have experience, training and willingness to guide you in your best interests. W/just a little information our creativity takes over to create magic…
There are people who say they want to do what I tell them too and then there are people who actually DO IT.
If truly willing to be trained they come to a place where they are so in tune with ME they know how to please me without even asking what I want. That is a little part of true submission.