Tag Archives: sex blogger

Q/A!

Q. MissMirand’sPet@MayorofMilperra Nov 1

@MissVikkiLynn Miss Vikki I’m having trouble getting my wife to commit to any long term F/m domiantion/lifestyle, any tips?
A: Is your wife into being dominate? or more submissive? A switch? It’s important to know each partners likes and dislikes or things they are at least willing to try. A lot of women are probably very uneducated into the world of BDSM just for mere fact of no one ever bringing it into play in their life sexually or casually-or maybe only read the famed “50 shades of grey” books. I know I was at one point as well-there is so much to learn. I think a lot of what is portrayed in the D/s life style can be really daunting or scary to a new comer. So starting with the basics with a book (quite a few on Amazon-this one here is great: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1890159190/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1) can be helpful. If you and your wife are in a relationship where you can talk frankly and freely and she is not shy about sex or what both your desires are then this will be easier. Some couples have a harder time expressing new kinks for fear of a negative connotation.
I would encourage some reading about the subject-for both of you! Then talking about a type of “scene” you both would be comfortable playing out. Set aside a night of no stress, a nice dinner and time to play out a session you both have agreed upon. It could be a lot more fun than either of you realize OR at the very least you can find out that it was not for you and try something else next time. Keep expectations low and be able to respond to your partners needs. If both people are not satisfied with the situation because of forced expectations or high hopes there will be less of a chance of it happening again.
Good luck-keep an open mind. *wink
PS: I also wrote a blog similar to this question that may be helpful: ‘The misconceptions of domination and my own personal reflections: http://missvikkiserotica.blogspot.com/2014/10/the-misconceptions-of-domination-and-my.html

PPS: you can find more questions and answers by searching “Q/A” in the search bar on my blog!

All My Creative Links-Customs, calls, clips, texting, art:

Fan Club https://onlyfans.com/mistressvictorialynn…

Clips, Customs, Call https://iwantclips.com/store/2616/MistressVictoria…

Text/Call https://sextpanther.com/MistressVictoriaLynn…

Call/Chat https://niteflirt.com/MissVikkiLynn

Clips https://clips4sale.com/studio/75307

Clips/Customs/Art https://manyvids.com/Feed/MistressVictoria/1004340444

Q/A !

Q: Cody Collier ‏@CodyCollier12 Nov 1

@MissVikkiLynn What do you think you like most about being a professional adult entertainer Miss Vikki? 🙂
A:  There are so many things I like about my career but a few that come to mind first are as follows. The freedom to choose my schedule is nice, I’m my own boss so I get to decide what gets done when. At the same time one has to be good at juggling your own schedules and deadlines-no one else is going to get anything done but myself!
I also love being able to speak with and meet so many different people around the world. Being in the world of fetish and erotica it is always evolving. To be at the forefront of experiencing and bringing to life peoples fantasies really is a lot of fun. I meet people I never would if it were not for my career in the adult industry.
I also get to wear lots of fun clothing, clothing I would probably never own or dream of trying on if I did not work in the adult industry. I’m gifted so many pretty dresses, lingerie and every day clothing. I love that my friends help grow my closet-this also lets me know what everyone else really likes too!PS: you can find more questions and answers by searching “Q/A” in the search bar on my blog!

Hotel Massage…with no happy ending…or middle or begining.

I got to my hotel Friday night this past weekend and was like, well they have a spa here, I deserve a massage. right? RIGHT. A phone call is made, I get ready, I go downstairs. I’m like whew okay this will be a great start to the weekend. The fact that I’m even writing about this tells you that it was not. But wait…oh just wait for it.

I fill out the paperwork they make you do. Checking no on pregnant with an inner sigh of relief -sigh- and soon I’m in the lounge waiting room. Thinking to myself…I hope this is good. I need good. Knowing I was taking a risk at a hotel that does not count on repeat service of the same person.

My masseuse comes walking in and she is a curvier heavy set lady. This is fine…until we start walking up the stairs to the massage room and she is getting out of breathe (only two flights of stairs okay) I’m pretty sure since my facial emotions always give me away my eyes were getting wider and wider by the second. We get to the room and shes like “Wow those stairs really get me sometimes you know at the end of a long day and all”. I’m already thinking “Shut up, long day? This is MY time to relax lady I don’t care about your day”. Do I think that is bitchy to think, NO, a massage is to relax I don’t want you to talk and I don’t want you breathing like a horse that just ran all rounds of the triple crown.

Now I’m starting to begin to think this really was a mistake. It just gets worse…or better. However you want to see this predicament. She asks me a few questions, I answer. She pulls back the blanket and says “oh no I forgot the other sheet for the top…well I guess we can make do with just the blanket”… Uh ya sure. I should have ran at that point and faked an illness.

She leaves the room, I get laid down. She comes in and starts to roll me off the table…I mean massage me. Lord in heaven I thought I was going to go tumbling. She was doing this huge rubbing motions all over my right side I felt like maybe some skin grafts were being done I’m not completely sure. Meanwhile she is TALKING. She is FUCKING TALKING. I keep responding with mmhmm, mmm or anything I can not to actually speak and encourage her mouth vomit. Then she says these glorious words “I almost was going to wash my blanket but I guess the universe decided that for me when they said I had another appointment”

WHAT. WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY! The blanket that is on me is NOT WASHED?!?! holy lay me down to sleep and slap me for coming in here.

I’m now TRULY trying to think of a way to get up and say I need to leave. But I have no balls to do so. I really should have…if there is ever a next time of a bad start to a massage I will.

She continues to “massage” me in the weirdest motions by someone who I’m pretty sure does not actually have their massage license. I felt like she was squeezing my neck-I’m sure if I had to endure much longer I would have an anxiety attack. She says “I’ve never massaged someone so petite before” Me again, mmhmm. She asks how the pressure is, I say fine. Then she saks if I want lighter or harder (laughs) I said oh well maybe a little lighter. She then does this “HA HA ha ha ha HA hahaha extended laugh and says well then it’s NOT fine”

O M G. thank god I’m face down on the table or my eyes would be popping out. She keeps using an insane amount of lotion and rubbing it in her hands as if I’m expecting her to pull out a dick at any moment and start jacking off. It’s a distributing sound when one is face down on a table…naked. (yes I wear wearing my MeUndies panties)

She then stops massaging my back, thank god, but moves to my legs. This entire time she is being so rushed and fast. It was completely horrible. Shes massaging my legs…up my leg…up my leg…up my leg…she didn’t stop at my thigh. This woman’s fingers touched my vagina THREE TIMES.

By now I bet you are all wondering how I stayed. I don’t know how I did. I just…feel a bit traumatized. Now I don’t think this was intentional sexual harassment BUT I’m strongly debating an email to the hotel about it all. In a very condensed manner of course. Only you guys get the awesome details (headdesk)

I’m thinking it can’t get any worse. Then she moves to the other side of my back, the left. Then she at one point sits down ON THE MASSAGE TABLE and puts my arm in her lap. OMG. LOL. I was like what is happening here. She says “I find it so funny you said you do a lot of art bigger then yourself, you know you are just so tiny and all” She finds herself so funny here, what this woman does not fucking understand is I meant I do paintings 3 times taller then myself. YOU IDIOT. But of course she really has not listened to anything I said and is self absorbed in her rapid breathing, touching my vagina and sitting on the table I’m laying on.

The massage comes to an end…50 minutes felt like 3 hours. I can’t believe it even happened, I’ve filed it into a small portion of my brain labeled “nightmares”

It cost me $116…with an already added 18% gratuity that I could not get away from. Deep regret of that $116. Probably some of the worst money I’ve ever spent. Happy birthday weekend to me…

-sigh-
-SIGH-
-siiiigggghhhhhhhh-

All My Creative Links-Customs, calls, clips, texting, art:

Fan Club https://onlyfans.com/mistressvictorialynn…

Clips, Customs, Call https://iwantclips.com/store/2616/MistressVictoria…

Text/Call https://sextpanther.com/MistressVictoriaLynn…

Call/Chat https://niteflirt.com/MissVikkiLynn

Clips https://clips4sale.com/studio/75307

Clips/Customs/Art https://manyvids.com/Feed/MistressVictoria/1004340444

I’m not in porn…Oh wait…Am I?

This seems to be a debatable topic, always up for discussion and versitile opinions.

I do not think I’m in or do porn, but I’m in the adult entertainment industry. I web cam and make pre-recorded videos for My clips stores. (I’m also an artist with contracts in stores.) Porn to Me is mainstream boy/girl, girl/girl, boy/boy, transgender etc sex scenes and the like.
At this time I only work for Myself (from many different avenues) and with My twin Brooke for videos in Our fetish clips4sale on demand video store.

I seem to have come across quite a few followers who think I do boy/girl porn… I’m confused as I have never tweeted anything remotely close to the idea or action of doing so. I like porn, I watch it occasionally, I support My favorite porn stars by buying their DVD’s etc. I think very highly of women, men, trans in porn who have made a name for themselves, are grounded and well rounded in interests. In this society of social networking it has give us the infinite possibilities of showing so many aspects of ourselves. I think this is great, especially for adult entertainers in whatever genre they do. It shows how human we really all are. As so many try to judge and put us adult workers in a box of despair, drugs and dead ends.
This is so far from the truth. Any job can have those attributes. It takes a strong person to not let those type of things interfere with their actual work, to focus on themselves and their success and passion for the business.

I will take My adult entertainment job, freedom to express My sexuality and time to better Myself and others over wanting to slit My wrists at McDonald’s or some other mindless job. Thankful to live in America where I have these choices.

So if you think I’m in porn that’s great, I’m not offended or going to argue about it with you, because quite possibly I’m in porn….erotica…adult entertainment. Whatever you want to call it, I love making it for you to enjoy. *wink

All My Creative Links-Customs, calls, clips, texting, art:

Fan Club https://onlyfans.com/mistressvictorialynn…

Clips, Customs, Call https://iwantclips.com/store/2616/MistressVictoria…

Text/Call https://sextpanther.com/MistressVictoriaLynn…

Call/Chat https://niteflirt.com/MissVikkiLynn

Clips https://clips4sale.com/studio/75307

Clips/Customs/Art https://manyvids.com/Feed/MistressVictoria/1004340444