My food journey.

Many of you know if you are on my twitter that I have spoken about giving up dairy earlier this year, I believe it was around May/June. I initially did this for my skin. I was having break out’s I never had before. Growing up even in my teenage and early adult years I had baby smooth skin. A few years ago that started to change and I came to this super frustrated point of being like what gives? My break out’s were never too intense but regardless no one is a fan of dealing with acne whether it is a little issue or a big one. I wanted my skin back. I did some research and I read a lot about people giving up dairy and their skin cleared up. I figured it was worth a try, I knew it would be hard for a few reasons. CHEESE right? Everyone loves cheese (more about that later) Dairy is in EVERYTHING. In so many things that it simply does not even need to be in. We all know the world revolves around money and if money can be made and a product used and it does not matter if it’s healthy for the consumer or not. I mean we all know what is advertised to us at the check out lane at the grocery store right? (candy)

I was not expecting the changes I was about to experience and in a very short amount of time. Within two weeks I had realized my anxiety was gone. I had dealt with intense anxiety for years, sometimes even panic attacks. I thought, this is strange perhaps it is a fluke and I’m going through a good phase. I’m here to tell you my anxiety has never returned. (except one situation which is extremely interesting and will tell you about as well) I do not want to sound super human, there has been times since changing my diet that I felt a little anxious over life changes or a super busy personal time in life etc. But it went away quickly and it did not affect my day, week or month like before.

Some other benefits I have experienced: I’m rarely ever tired (I use to feel tired every day, sluggish, unmotivated) I lost about 5 lbs…dairy is very inflammatory. Think gas, bloating and general rounder look. I have none of that any longer. (I’m TINY to begin with so my goal here was not weight loss but it did happen) My periods are a breeze…I barely realize they are coming and I no longer want to sit in bed for 3 days with intense cramps. I rarely have aches and pains that are unexplained like before. I even have some injuries that I live with from life situations that I now have little to zero pain association with since removing dairy. It just no longer hurts like before. I fall asleep SUPER easy and I STAY asleep. Before I would lay awake and wake frequently. I also wake up more AWAKE in the morning. Instead of feeling slow and sluggish. I use to feel anemic and bruise VERY easy (dairy can induce anemia in people, this is a fact and not something I made up) this would cause my heart to speed up and slow down. I could FEEL this happening. I now can’t tell you the last time I felt this happen. WOW? That alone, is huge. That was not healthy. I feel like a zen monk most days, super chill, lots of patience and little to no intense reactions to life situations.

I experienced all these benefits without even realizing they would occur. Then I recently watched two documentaries on Netflix. “What the Health” and “Game Changers”. They were very eye opening and also validating in my situation as I realized that the people in the documentary had the same life health changes that I did. I recommend if you have any interest at all to take some time to watch those. Also they are science based, include doctors and nutritionists, top athletes who are vegan etc.

To touch on my return of intense anxiety, this happened just last month. I started taking probiotics wanting to make sure my gut bacteria was balanced. I bought a vegetarian type. I feel quite silly now but I did not read the label, it was from a top health food store in the area and I was unaware it would have anything it it, like dairy. I was wrong and within a few days of taking them I had intense anxiety return. I was so confused, my diet was being refined more so every single day. A friend asked me what was in the probiotics, I turned them around and there was dairy. Within a few days of quitting them again I slowly returned to my new no anxiety normal. There has also been a few instances that I went out to eat somewhere, verified with the chef there was not dairy in certain products and I learned soon after from how I reacted that there indeed WAS. I rarely go out to eat now, it is just too troublesome in choosing items I know are safe for me. That sure can take the “fun” out of socializing BUT I have found that how I feel is worth it.

I also want to note that I’m an extremely sensitive person and I’m very in tune with how I feel. Not everyone is aware of their bodies in this manner. I consider myself HSP-which is a term for highly sensitive person and we literally perceive and experience the world differently than others do.

I also want to note that in no way am I writing this to convince anyone to change their diet or to give up foods they are eating. I suggest doing your own research, see a nutritionist, talk to your vegetarian or vegan friends and really just do your own journey with food. I’m writing this blog for me and for the others I’ve had conversations with who have been on a very similar diet journey.

I find the relation between the human brain and what we eat (our gut is considered another brain with how it communicates with our body now with science!) very fascinating and I will continue to explore this and perhaps there is even another level to how amazing I can feel? I’m entirely willing to find out after experiencing all the positive changes in my life since making these choices.

OH and about that cheese comment….it is very similarly addicting just like cocaine. That is where you cheese addiction comes from, it is literally an addiction. (I did not make this up, it is in the “What the Health” documentary)

I also have to thank my horses for spurring me on in exploring how food affects us. I changed all my horses to a grain free no sugar or starch diet about 3 years ago and wow they are so healthy. Many issues I was having with them just gradually disappeared. (Grain is not a natural horse forage food, it is man made convenience) I might sound like a true hippie here, but this hippie feels amazing and like I was given a new lease on life. Therefore I’m stay in my crazy lane because I’m really loving it for myself and others in my life that I take care of.

My most recent change is cutting out eating meat as often as I was. I no longer eat it every day and I use it as a side dish and not a main course. The other day I ate meat twice, albeit in small amounts, and I ended up not feeling well. This situation with changing your diet the less you eat those things maybe your body does not process well the more you can tell when you do eat them how it does not make you feel well. Some of us are so stuck in this cycle of eating so terrible for ourselves we think that how we feel is normal and our body is in a constant state of “this is fine I’m just trying to cope” and until we make a change most of us may not realize it.

If any ladies want to chat diet or any foods you like feel free to message me ANYTIME. I love hearing what works for you and how your food journey has changed your life as well. I have found so many substitutes that make me feel great after I eat, energy and stamina I did not have before.

Once again I’m NOT a nutritionist, doctor or someone advocating to shut down the dairy and meat industry. I hope you all find what works for you, changing your diet can be very tough and a mental battle to start. Make sure you are supporting yourself, speaking with others going through the same thing and even have some cheat days. But if you are like me, you could not pay me to go back to eating dairy.

If you do not agree with this and want to eat whatever you want and think I’m a score card away from being crazy, that is fine. No need to comment or message me. I realize some people are super addicted to their life styles and what they eat, that is fine. You keep doing you, I have no reason to have or convince anyone to change their diets. I’m only worried about myself.

Thank you. Have a great day friends. MV

EDIT: I forgot to touch on sustainability. The way that the meat and dairy industry is ran is very taxing on our environment and on the people that live around these facilities. There is a lot of chemical run off, dead animal bacteria, unhealthy living conditions around these farms. Many of these people are underprivileged and can not afford to move away from these areas. Why do I get to eat bacon while others suffer? Why would I want to eat bacon from these facilities? That feed dead pigs to the other pigs and water run off from the entire situation makes humans near there ill. To me I can not ethically choose to continue to consume selfishly these items. This is a personal choice but one I like to bring up so others are aware this is a very real reality for some to have to live this way and how many factory farms are ran for the mass production of these products.

A little Halloween #throwback

Posting 6 new photos on the 31st of a Halloween throwback on my OnlyFans page. Did you dress up this year for Halloween? I did a few weeks ago and I used this cape again this year, it’s pretty versatile! I sadly do not have the rest of the outfit any longer. But can you just imagine me ONLY wearing this cape? OR perhaps with my catsuit. Hmmm, that may need to be a new post soon. ONLYFANS: https://onlyfans.com/mistressvictorialynn

Phone Call Etiquette

Good day everyone!

I’ve been thinking about getting back to blogging lately and what a perfect way to do so by writing up a little note about phone call etiquette. After a few phone calls lately where it sounded like the client was in a wind tunnel/underwater or just plain incoherent-I felt it important to perhaps saw a few helpful words and advice. How I see it anyways. I know many of you become a bit nervous or apprehensive to call me as you unsure how it will go, what you will say etc. Fear not as I’m about to share some steps with you that will help you get over the jitters. Maybe…

  1. Make sure you have a quiet space to call from so that you can talk at a normal level, without mumbling or whispering incoherently. I understand sometimes calls are made discreetly at work or home where others are but just try to talk CLEARLY. Or else it is really difficult for me to respond CORRECTLY. Do we want to be forced to suck cock or want some simple JOI? Lets stay in the turned on lane and not the oh god what have I done lane.
  2. Choose the amount of time you think you may want to speak to me (or whomever else) for. Have the adequate amount of money deposited. (more can be added if you want to talk longer the call just may be disconnected!)
  3. Think about what you may want to talk about or ask me. Why are you calling? What is the meaning of life?
  4. You may want to email or message me to set up a time or plan to just try and connect with me when you see me online.
  5. Go to my niteflirt profile: https://www.niteflirt.com/MissVikkiLynn or iwantclips profile: https://iwantclips.com/phone/store/2616/MistressVictoria and choose which phone line you want to call.
  6. Take a deep breathe and dial.
  7. Wonder if I will even answer and start to panic.
  8. You cant believe this is happening right now and you may need your inhaler.
  9. I answer and say “hello, how are you?”
  10. you say for example: “Hi my name is kittyMcMuffin and I’ve been a fan for awhile of you JOI videos. I would love if you could give me some instruction today?”
  11. OR you say for example: “Hi, I would love to casually chat for a bit before getting more into my fetish, is that okay?”
  12. OR you say for example: “Hi I just want to give you $1000 and hang up, thank you for existing”
  13. We chat, we get to know each other better, you get off (maybe) and before you go you say “Wow, thank you, I appreciated the time you spent with me today”
  14. Both NF and IWC will alert both parties when there is one minute remaining. I keep talking after this same as before, no need to actually respond to this auto message or be interrupted by it. On with the flow.
  15. I say “you are welcome” and you hang up. Or run out of money. Whichever comes first.
  16. Then you send a tribute after if you feel so inclined and plan the next time you are going to call me as you go on with your day with thoughts of me inside your head just as it should be.

That was not too hard was it? Any fellow providers have any advice to add to this? I’ll add it below here with a link to your twitter. CLIENTS respond to the blog post ON TWITTER and tell me your thoughts.

Thank you for stopping by and perhaps you will get the bright idea to call me SOON and we can have a little chat mkay?

-MistressVictoria

I’m a real human and a sex worker

It seems that this should not be a sentence I have to mesh together. Yet there is this huge void in peoples minds that justifies their words or actions because someone holds a taboo job gives them the means to ridicule, cut down or flat out verbally destroy someone via the internet.

I’ve been desiring to make a blog post about this for awhile. I’ve had these experiences for 9 years of being online in adult work but lately some fresh instances have given me a bit of a drive to sit down and really have a talk about it. (Please RT this post!)

Here look at these attachments. My twin Brooke today was the receiver of an unfortunate chain of events. Which fueled my fire yet again to write this. Take a look:

I’m not even sure where to start?

Firstly this video was most likely stolen and posted on a website that Brooke did not give permission for it to be there. Then it was sent to someone to post and make “funny” cracks at for their own deranged amusement.

I’ve seen situations like this get out of hand quickly.  Personal privacy breached, adult content put on a site where 18 and under can see it easier and to state the obvious that people have killed themselves over comments on the internet-THIS IS YET ANOTHER FORM OF CYBER BULLYING.
Just because you are behind a keyboard does not mean that your words are not harmful. (don’t worry Brooke is not upset but has reminded herself why she never reads comments)

In just a few comments she was called a bitch, a fucktard and other things. What an absolutely fowl way to describe a women you saw once in a video…that you know nothing about. Who was not harming anyone or anything. Who had her content stolen that was paid for by a client. you should all be ashamed of yourself if you conduct yourself this way.

Now Brooke and I have been online for almost a decade and fully aware that these type of situations happen so are not going to be a part of the statistics that commit suicide over it. Still a valid point to bring up in my opinion.

Secondly the comments of Daddy should be proud and all this other stuff. WHAT? lol >_< (laughing while cringing) why did you bring her parents up into this business? They have nothing to do with her adult life. Hey PS they know and it’s not an issue. Thanks for your concern. They are proud of the people they know we are past the job we chose. Can’t say the same for your parents if they saw you posting on this video ripping a young attractive girl apart for no reason.

She sure as fuck did not make that video for you. Actually a PAYING customer did though. Someone who respects her work and the validity of sex work in our society.

and she sure is fuck is not going to go start tanning because you think her skin is too pale for your liking. (get over yourself you twat pale skin is beautiful-tanning causes cancer)

Thirdly the majority of the comments are a negative bash while bringing a sexist vibe alluding to them jerking off to the “disgusting” video. Hmm. I don’t know but I’m not laughing.

A woman can be respected no matter her life choices being that of a sex worker. Many of my clients have the utmost respect for me. In privacy they tell me that bringing their fantasies to life has been immensely helpful. I make sure my clients are using my services as responsible as possible. Can’t say the same for a lot of conglomerate companies…but since a women is showing her body by her own choice for some reason men feel the need act as you see above.

The least other humans can do is make sure the words they are typing out are helpful and not harmful. I feel like I’m talking to a five year old right now. Think before you type/act/spew word diarrhea. “Are you words being helpful or harmful?”

Kudos and brownie points to the few on this post who said something positive or showed their credibility by speaking up for this women in the video.

This woman is a real person. A real person who I bet you did not think would see all your comments eh?

Sex workers are people with lives beyond what they do. Beyond the product they produce. We have families, hobbies, goals, dreams, illnesses, exhaustion, depression, anxiety, happiness, pets, children and lives just like yours. Yet the majority of sex workers I know are amazing people who have such compassion for others. Who are giving back behind the scenes to charities, family member and friends. All while being dissected under a microscope of hate.

There is positive vibes in sex work-the media just does not want you to see it.

Through sex work I have been able to explore hobbies I’d never have the time or income to do if I was working a 9-5. I’ve started other businesses. I give back monthly to people I know and do not know in any way I can. I’ve re habbed horses and found them better homes. An expense that never gives back financially. I’m able to provide myself with self care-mental health therapist, massages, quiet no work days, time spent in nature if I need etc. I could keep going but I’m sure those with a brain get the point.

Thank you to those who realize we are human. That sex work is work and that what we all can bring to the table can be life changing. Not only for ourselves but for our clients.

For inside the fact that we as sex workers are not widely accepted in society-but our services are widely used-we have found acceptance to be something we are incredibly good at.

I’ll accept that you like being called a doggie and spanked with a bottle up your ass if you’ll accept that I’m a person-just like you.

MV

The Great Return

Hello to the land of kink and femdom,

I have been off from accepting custom videos since May of this year. (wow!) Except for a handful of times I’ve been so gracious to film for a few clients I have not been actively producing content. BUT now I have decided to return to custom videos mid-January. The house situation I’m dealing with has literally no end in sight as I’m having to fire the current contractors.

I will still be recording at home BUT I will also be using my twin Brookes studio. TRY not to get confused. I know we are twins and some videos will be recorded in the same set up. (her studio) If you prefer one over the other make the request in your custom video email.

Custom video blog has been updated: -I’m NOW (12/19/2016) accepting custom video emails/requests. I will begin to record again starting MID-January. Clips will now have a sliding timeline of completion. I will not say no to your clip if I do not “have time” I will merely tell you that it will take 2-4-6+ weeks for completion. This will be a way to not have to deny custom orders, there sometimes will be a longer turn around time BUT I plan to record EVERY week-

Yes you read that right. I have set aside one day a week strictly for recording customs. This will make it easier to complete and continue to produce the great personal content I’m known for.

I’m excited to get back into a schedule. I think that will help me deal with the house nightmare in some way. Something “normal” to grasp onto. (LOL normal, femdom so normal! MY normal. -wink)

You can read more about custom videos HERE: http://missvikkilynn.com/custom-videos/

I do not plan to return to web camming. Skype is sometimes, albeit very rarely an option for those who can make it worth My time.

I will be posting panties on twitter for sale though when I have them available. Keep watch there.

I’m going to keep this short and sweet and leave you with these photos. I had the rare chance today to use some gorgeous natural light for SIX videos (wow I’m awesome) and I’m going to go back to editing now. Ciao My minions.

PS: These photos are from a video to be released December 23rd, a little Christmas jolly jack off instruction for you. I’m so nice, I know.

 

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