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One thing that being on the internet as a web cam/adult model does it provide you with this mass array of other people doing similar things to what you are through the reaches of social media and viewing them live on cam.
You start to see what so and so is doing, what time she is working, how often she posts new videos and what new site she just joined last week to peddle her wares.
You start thinking to yourself…I could do that. I could sign up there. I could make more monetary income if I had my videos on X, Y and Z sites. What if I started doing this, or that, how about… Wait.
This could be true. But you need to stop and think about your time as well. Is it worth a few extra hundred a month to make sure you have the same videos uploaded, where on another site you are making 10x’s that? To some it may be. To me it came down to the fact I was spreading myself too thin in too many areas on too many sites. Or could I just concentrate on a few things and maybe use that time I wasn’t uploading to make some more content, be live on cam or hell…relax?! Yay.
I also asked my followers before, it was quite some time ago-a year or more, if having my videos on more than one site was confusing and turned them away as they were then confused where I was, which video was where etc. And 95% said yes. Now in the end of course us women running a business should do whats best for ourselves, but we also need to listen to those who are supporting that business as well.
In the end you only know what is best for you. But if you are running around like a chicken with your head cut off (so to speak) feeling tired all the time, anxious, stressed. This person wants that from you, hey join my new site. AHHHH. That can get really hard fast and hello burn out. No one wants to feel burnt out.
In the end you need to do what you enjoy, if you are not enjoying something anymore then re evaluate what you are doing and look for ways to reinvent yourself. Take time for you. You are important. At the end of the day the balance of your bank account may be important to feed, clothe and house yourself…but it does not emulate your worth. Be worthy of knowing what is best for yourself.
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This past Christmas season I purchased/made/sent some gifts that I may have not have normally done so. All with the thought of thinking of others; like in earlier blog posting I mentioned my late grandfather who always was giving to others. In such big ways that I never even knew about until his funeral ceremony.
So I decided to try and do more giving lately. Whether it was my time, resources etc.
Then I realized that I was waiting for people to acknowledge that they had done so, not in the fact of hi look at me, but knowing that they received and enjoyed the gift I sent.
It was nice to hear from those who did take the time to thank me and let me know they received something special. Thank you if that was you! but it also made me take a step back and think of a few things that could be a life lesson. One that would provide less fucks to give, courtesy of an article I read from KittyWilde the other day. Here: http://markmanson.net/not-giving-a-fuck
Ode to KittyWilde for that little reminder.
Then I realized how special it must be when I post here thanking everyone who gives such nice gifts to me off my wishlist. How it must bring a smile to your face when I say HEY YOU! thanks yes, I appreciate that you went out of your way for me. I’m glad I can give to you in that manner. It does make me happy too. Acknowledgement.
But it then brings me to the thought of (and something I was just discussing with a close friend from high school) that when people expect things of others (because that is how they would handle their life, situation etc) that is when we become disappointed. Expectations.
In the end this could be a lesson for myself as well. Giving, if done, should be done freely without any expectations of a response. Because giving, when done right, is from the heart and done so selflessly.
Either way. Thank you Mina Stefan for this wonderful photo you posted thanking me for a gift:
In ending. Life lesson learned. Always on a journey here…what life lessons have you learned lately?
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Welcome to a new series on my blog! Every Tuesday (that I remember or have time) I’m going to give cam/adult models tips I’ve learned over the years. I can’t give it all away but I can share a little bit *wink
Tip #3. You don’t have to be friends with every other model. Do your own thing. Grow your business. Most the time other models are not into friendships for mutual enjoyment. Lots of them are in it for personal gain, promotion etc. Align yourself with people who have similar interests, ideas and morals. Be careful who you surround yourself with as you can possibly be judged by those relationships. Stay positive. Not every day, week or month is going to be your best. Don’t compare yourself to others. You are not them. Be you and be successful doing so.
A lot of what models are saying on their twitter may not even be true. Just because you’ve never received an anonymous 200,000 token tip on myfreecams does not mean you are a failure. Have your own goals in mind, work to make them come to life. Your life needs to be lived for you. Do not be so busy making a living to forget to make a life.
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Yet another collection, this one from 2015, of photos posted to thank My supporters. Which one is your favorite? A few of these are throwback photos from 2011, 2012, 2013 time frame. Ones I’ve mentioned sharing from hidden files of 1000’s of photos on My computers. Hence the different hair colors. Enjoy.
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Remember everyone, cleanliness is next to godliness.
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I want to personally thank each and every one of you who has supported me this year. Clips, customs videos, thoughtful gifts and kind words of motivation and compliments galore. Visiting me live on cam and being such good boys, gentlemen and making me so excited for the future of my career here.
I’ve had a lot of changes in my life this year and I’m still evolving to be where I want to be. To live that life of self sufficiency, to be thankful for the small things. I don’t need to “keep up with the Jonses” and I don’t need to be like other providers online.
A big part of happiness and feeling successful is the ability to share myself here. To be real. To even share the moments that hurt or are not as conventional. I thank you all that you are here through everything. Life is ever changing and so am I. Change is what propels us forward, into new things, experiences.
At the end of the day, being down to earth, being kind, caring…REAL…is much more important to me then someone thinking I’m perfect because of the shoes I have, the car I drive or whats in my bank account. Yes I like female domination (genuinely) but I want the time you spend here to add to your life, not take away from it. I want to be an escape, a moment of entertainment and rest. No regrets.
I’m thankful for the up’s and down’s the failures and successes, I think they all make me better. Smarter and stronger. So cheers to 2014 and going into a new year and reflecting on starting anew, I wish you a happy and healthy 2015.
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