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What are you waiting for? Take the plunge. Text me. Worship. Tribute. Be trained. Become owned. Don’t you want to be called Mine?

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***MARCH WISHLIST***

Want to spoil me the month of March? I have some things I need and you are in luck that I will allow you to take care of them. It’s simple, all you need to do is send me an Amazon gift card to: [email protected]. Write in the subject line what you are sending for.

***Please do not ask to send me items directly from yourself to me-I do not allow this and do not own a PO BOX for this sort of thing. I prefer items I know I like, need and want. No surprises.

***Please do not use my email to ask questions that do not pertain to my business. Use my twitter (https://twitter.com/MissVikkiLynn) for casual conversation.***

***This list may be updated throughout the month. When an item is bought I will say so next to it.

This list is for those good boys who like to go above and beyond. I do not usually ask for too many things and like to keep it to items that I actually need. Reduce, reuse recycle is a big motto of mine. I try to buy second hand what I can, but some things I do need to purchase new. Thanks for being a part of my day to day life with these purchases. I do smile when I see things you bought around my house. 🙂

Thank you.

(BOUGHT) BEACH GLASS PUZZLE: ($23) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00B8U2AYA/?coliid=I30TX0D3QEWRYQ&colid=2KQN6YVYVVQGW&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

(BOUGHT) RUG RUNNER: ($62) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075W5M128/?coliid=I7QHOMA8RBG1Y&colid=2KQN6YVYVVQGW&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

(BOUGHT) WINTER HAT: ($25) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B093NGJSSC/?coliid=I3QG6OGIY9ZUGF&colid=2KQN6YVYVVQGW&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

(BOUGHT) WINTER HAT: ($18) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08B8VLRT3/?coliid=I3KDA623W6CZ86&colid=2KQN6YVYVVQGW&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

(BOUGHT) HANGING FILE ORGANIZER ($32) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08JGHBHVQ/?coliid=IO4WFGHUPNC7R&colid=2KQN6YVYVVQGW&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

CURLING WAND SET: ($150) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0855BZWKG/?coliid=I1MGU37F5EL4YL&colid=2KQN6YVYVVQGW&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

HEATED VEST: ($140) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01H50RDW0/?coliid=I1QF4VNS0V0POG&colid=2KQN6YVYVVQGW&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it&th=1&psc=1

(BOUGHT) HORSE SUPPLEMENT ($45) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007OUF78E/?coliid=I1908G19NFWN4A&colid=2KQN6YVYVVQGW&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

(BOUGHT) SOLAR RING BATTERY PACK ($100): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07Y2YSZX3/?coliid=I311XAXXQHO5Q3&colid=2KQN6YVYVVQGW&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

COPPER GAZEBO BIRD FEEDER ($200) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07B6RB6YT/?coliid=I1ZI1GU31F1IQ&colid=2KQN6YVYVVQGW&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

(BOUGHT x1) WOLFORD TIGHTS: ($60) x3: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000B7HZ9Q/?coliid=IU7ZLYAMV7R3W&colid=3O4H83K42F2FE&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

(BOUGHT) ART PEN: ($13): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B074SWBBY4/?coliid=I363KGF0ILZB8O&colid=31ERKXNSBJ1SO&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

DRAWING TABLET ($200): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YNG1N28/?coliid=I2HZQWLEOARQX0&colid=31ERKXNSBJ1SO&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

WATERCOLORS ($60): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08XC2XT45/?coliid=IMET8ZHI3BOBP&colid=31ERKXNSBJ1SO&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

(BOUGHT) SHAMPOO ($48): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08KTYZLL4/?coliid=I3016D9PSYVBHH&colid=30AKE2C0X5QDV&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

(BOUGHT) BATH SALTS ($20): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08ZDR2TFY/?coliid=I1M2MUYXVKTO60&colid=30AKE2C0X5QDV&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

(BOUGHT) HOUSE BOOK $19: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593234464/?coliid=I1449PECKS9JG5&colid=25IKHXTNLS3X8&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

(BOUGHT) DRAWING BOOK $15: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1984858203/?coliid=I17ABSX4AL71AJ&colid=25IKHXTNLS3X8&psc=1&ref_=lv_ov_lig_dp_it

(BOUGHT) HANGERS for my LINGERE $26: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07PMHNRPH/ref=ox_sc_saved_image_3?smid=A2L77EE7U53NWQ&psc=1

Thanks for being a good boy reading this list, sending a gift card and adding to my life in a positive way. The universe and I thank you.

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Want to webcam one on one with me? Read below!

As a professional in the adult world since 2008, one of the most entertaining and interesting aspects of my work is the ability to (when I desire) offer one on one webcam online live sessions tailored to our mutual interests. Having that live intimate attention is a thrill that I’m sure almost no one wants to pass up trying at least once in this realm. I webcammed primarily for 8 years before branching off into clips, phones, texting and custom videos. I’m EXTREMELY good at live shows and a natural at creating fantasies and bringing them to life for your private entertainment.

I receive webcam inquires daily-but my webcam schedule is actually a lack there of one and most shows either require pre booking of 24 hours in advance or the ability to be paying attention to my last minute log ins.

Webcam is something I chose to do when I have most other things caught up on and can take the time to focus on giving those special shows to you. Since I’m someone with tenure around this area of the internet it is not often I don’t have something or someone that needs tending too. Alas, do not dismay it is still possible to webcam with me if you are a good boy. Want to be a good boy? Of course you do.

You can find me on webcam through a few different portals. Below I will outline them and the steps needed to webcam via those avenues. Any questions after reading this should be accompanied with a tribute to show respect for my time.

NITEFLIRT: https://www.niteflirt.com/MissVikkiLynn Here on Niteflirt you need to tribute $20 for my Skype ID and send me your ID right after so I can add you. After I add you I need you to confirm that I correctly added the right person-you-to my Skype friends list. Then you can call my live webcam line ($9.99 a minute) and I will call you on Skype. It is always most polite to contact me before calling the Niteflirt webcam line so I’m ready for your live session and that no minutes you pay for are wasted with me or you needing to arrange technology or ourselves properly.

IWANTCLIPS: https://iwantclips.com/store/2616/MistressVictoria iWantClips is very similar to Niteflirt. You need to tribute $20 for my Skype ID and send me your ID right after so I can add you. After I add you I need you to confirm that I correctly added the right person-you-to my Skype friends list. Then you can call my live webcam line ($9.99 a minute) and I will call you on Skype. It is always most polite to contact me before calling the Niteflirt webcam line so I’m ready for your live session and that no minutes you pay for are wasted with me or you needing to arrange technology or ourselves properly.

SEXTPANTHER: https://sextpanther.com/MistressVictoriaLynn Here on sextpanther you can call me directly from your phone to my phone where I accept the call easily. This is probably the easiest way to webcam with me. It’s pretty simple-no adding IDs, just calling right away. I have 5 minutes to accept your webcam invitation. Plan accordingly. It is rude to hang up after initiating a call and it is also rude to not first ask if I’m ready. That way you are not waiting on me wondering if I’m actually available.

ONLYFANS: https://onlyfans.com/mistressvictorialynn Here you get a $1 discount for being a member. You also DO NOT have to tribute $20 for my Skype ID. That is FREE for my OnlyFans CURRENT members. Once your first session is paid for I will add you to my Skype friends list. After I add you I need you to confirm that I correctly added the right person-you-to my Skype friends list. You pay by tribute for the time desired ($9/minute) and then I call you. NEVER call me first. This will get you blocked.

ADDITIONAL INFORMATION:

***Any webcam shows AFTER 9pm will be $15/minute. I do not tend to stay up too late but accommodations can be made for a financial fee. I mostly webcam during the day.

***NEVER call me on Skype without permission. You will be blocked and have to pay $100 to be re-added. Make the mistake twice and you’ll never be allowed to webcam with me again.

***NEVER contact me on Skype asking for a session. WHY? Because I actually *never* check it until I log in for a paid session. I won’t see your message quickly and I will just be annoyed you tried to contact me on a free platform for my attention.

***Any specific outfit requests are $25. Any outfit changes during a session are $25 and will be done during paid time.

***Do you want your Skype session recorded? Recorded Skype sessions are $20/minute. I can only record Skype sessions not sessions via Sextpanther. I need advanced notice to set up recording for a session and I also need to approve what type of session you are interested in. Extreme details or script like sessions are not allowed-leave those for custom videos. (There is no discounts for this)

***IGNORE webcam is $5/minute or $4/minute for OnlyFans members. Ignore webcam is when I literally ignore you. I’m doing whatever I want in my room. IGNORE webcam is not a way for you to try to get a cheaper show where I still tease you or talk to you. IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE.

***ALL webcam shows are ended at the time they are paid for. I do not go over the time you paid for even if you have not reached an ending you desire. My time is valuable, if you do not respect it and expect free minutes and extra attention past the minutes paid for it will be the last time you webcam with me.

If you have any questions you can message me on any of these sites listed above. Catch me when you see me logged in or set up a show in advance. Maybe soon I’ll be seeing you doing some devious kinky enjoyable things just for me. *smiles

MistressVictoria

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Recent Clip Store Changes…READ!

Good Morning!
I have received multiple messages asking about where my clips have gone here on IWC/C4S. I have not removed them myself. This happened because MasterCard changed their policies again and are making websites that host clip video content review every single uploaded clip to make sure it does not go against their new rules.
Yes regrettably that will mean even more clips will be removed over time as we all have to adjust to what MasterCard and the banks decide we are allowed to sell.
As you can understand this is extremely distressing to us creators who rely on our libraries of clips not just for income but as a way of showing who we are, what we like and the kinds of services we offer those who are interested.
I do believe that IWC sent out members information about all of this, check your messages and such for more detailed information. There has been word that all wishlists, icloud videos and the like are hoping to be back online by mid next week. Since this is all new and was unexpected at this magnitude I’m personally not sure what to expect with the return of my entire clips library. Those of you who have customs in the online form will also have to wait a few more weeks for us to be allowed to upload those again.

So what can you do other than wait along with us? You can contact MasterCard affiliates directly about how harmful this is to the industry. (after educating yourself on it more) You can RT articles about this that are in the news. You can purchase the clips that are live and active in models stores AND if you feel so inclined leave a tribute/tip or use mark up codes. You can also go back through and purchase previous PTV mail that I have sent out, lots of great never before seen pictures there…
For many of us clips are how we make income that buys groceries, pays bills and how we live our lives. Having this taken away even for just a few days to a week is difficult and unnerving to have even less control over our careers. We are doing the best we can.

As always I sincerely appreciate those who have bought the clips available I have for now, added a tribute, sent a message saying they are thinking of me and in general having solidarity with us during this time. I do hope long term that there will be resolutions that ease us creators minds and that allow all of you to continue to purchase content that allows you to explore your fantasies.

Thank you for being patient and staying knowing that all of us are doing everything we can, even if it feels like little at times, to keep being positive and keep creating.

After this free message I will be sending a $25 PTV message on IWC and OF, open it if you are feeling generous. I’m unable to attach any photos (On IWC at least!) at this time but will be keeping a list of those who opened it and when able sending a proper thank you.

Hope you are having a good weekend and are well,
MistressVictoria

PS: If a creator goes to edit a clip already live it will go under review again, if you see a typo just ignore it and realize I’m human (gasp! I know a utter shock) as I’m unsure I will edit anything and stand the chance of it going under review and not being published again. Thanks!

PPS: My texting, phone and webcam lines are on! Lets talk. 🙂

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Monday musings…

MONDAY THOUGHTS:

Hiring a SW is a beautiful thing. You can explore w/out judgement and see if it’s just a fantasy or a long term interest. SW have experience, training and willingness to guide you in your best interests. W/just a little information our creativity takes over to create magic…

AND

There are people who say they want to do what I tell them too and then there are people who actually DO IT.
If truly willing to be trained they come to a place where they are so in tune with ME they know how to please me without even asking what I want. That is a little part of true submission.

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Website Protocols!

This is happening frequently, if not daily for myself and I’m sure many other models who you can converse with. When you are on a specific website keep ALL discussion about that website and what it offers.

For example; Do not mention OnlyFans on IWantClips. Do not mention Niteflirt on OnlyFans. Do not ask to pay via a cashapp on ANY website portal that models host their profiles on. (and please for the love of the slut gods stop asking to use p*yp*l. They hate us.)

Please remember:

Do not ask about or mention other websites that are not related to the site you are on.
Do not ask about paying other ways other than on the website you are on.
Do not share content posted on the website you are enjoying elsewhere.
Do not record content/calls/shows on ANY website. (not only is this a violation of the persons privacy and authentic conversation with you it is also not allowed per website rules)
Do not ask to meet up with models on websites. It flags the ENTIRE site for hosting illegal content/meets. (usually the word MEET is banned on many websites for this very reason)
Using a banned word? Frustrated? It’s for a reason, not because the website is prude it’s because the banks are not allowing it.

Websites DO check and make sure both parties are adhering to the rules. I’ve known people who do not and who have been banned from websites. Keeping things on websites keeps both parties safe, gives boundaries and rules to follow and keep things more fun for everyone.

All these things if done outside the TOS will lead to your account being flagged, restricted or removed.

I’m having to give warnings out frequently or it’s awkward to give the warnings out about it. I’m doing it for YOUR safety and MINE. Your account WILL be the first one removed in these offenses since you are asking the model to go outside the TOS (terms of service) rules.

If you value your play time and being able to have a good experience please follow these simple rules.
If you are on that website, keep the conversation about THAT website and not others.

The only safe space to ask a model their preferred payment method is likely via their email if they have a public one or perhaps their twitter or other social media account.

Thanks for coming to yet another TedTalk.

PS: This is NOT pointed at any one person AT ALL. So don’t go crawl into a cave thinking you are headed to detention for asking. I realize some people don’t think of these rules as common sense or read TOS on websites before joining.

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Shall I…

let them eat cake?

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I’m a real human and a sex worker, adult worker, porn star, femdom guru.

It seems that this should not be a sentence I have to mesh together. Yet there is this huge void in peoples minds that justifies their words or actions because someone holds a taboo job gives them the means to ridicule, cut down or flat out verbally destroy someone via the internet.

I’ve been desiring to make a blog post about this for awhile. I’ve had these experiences for 9 years of being online in adult work but lately some fresh instances have given me a bit of a drive to sit down and really have a talk about it. (Please RT this post!)

Here look at these attachments. My twin Brooke today was the receiver of an unfortunate chain of events. Which fueled my fire yet again to write this. Take a look:

I’m not even sure where to start?

Firstly this video was most likely stolen and posted on a website that Brooke did not give permission for it to be there. Then it was sent to someone to post and make “funny” cracks at for their own deranged amusement.

I’ve seen situations like this get out of hand quickly.  Personal privacy breached, adult content put on a site where 18 and under can see it easier and to state the obvious that people have killed themselves over comments on the internet-THIS IS YET ANOTHER FORM OF CYBER BULLYING.
Just because you are behind a keyboard does not mean that your words are not harmful. (don’t worry Brooke is not upset but has reminded herself why she never reads comments)

In just a few comments she was called a bitch, a fucktard and other things. What an absolutely fowl way to describe a women you saw once in a video…that you know nothing about. Who was not harming anyone or anything. Who had her content stolen that was paid for by a client. you should all be ashamed of yourself if you conduct yourself this way.

Now Brooke and I have been online for almost a decade and fully aware that these type of situations happen so are not going to be a part of the statistics that commit suicide over it. Still a valid point to bring up in my opinion.

Secondly the comments of Daddy should be proud and all this other stuff. WHAT? lol >_< (laughing while cringing) why did you bring her parents up into this business? They have nothing to do with her adult life. Hey PS they know and it’s not an issue. Thanks for your concern. They are proud of the people they know we are past the job we chose. Can’t say the same for your parents if they saw you posting on this video ripping a young attractive girl apart for no reason.

She sure as fuck did not make that video for you. Actually a PAYING customer did though. Someone who respects her work and the validity of sex work in our society.

and she sure is fuck is not going to go start tanning because you think her skin is too pale for your liking. (get over yourself you twat pale skin is beautiful-tanning causes cancer)

Thirdly the majority of the comments are a negative bash while bringing a sexist vibe alluding to them jerking off to the “disgusting” video. Hmm. I don’t know but I’m not laughing.

A woman can be respected no matter her life choices being that of a sex worker. Many of my clients have the utmost respect for me. In privacy they tell me that bringing their fantasies to life has been immensely helpful. I make sure my clients are using my services as responsible as possible. Can’t say the same for a lot of conglomerate companies…but since a women is showing her body by her own choice for some reason men feel the need act as you see above.

The least other humans can do is make sure the words they are typing out are helpful and not harmful. I feel like I’m talking to a five year old right now. Think before you type/act/spew word diarrhea. “Are you words being helpful or harmful?”

Kudos and brownie points to the few on this post who said something positive or showed their credibility by speaking up for this women in the video.

This woman is a real person. A real person who I bet you did not think would see all your comments eh?

Sex workers are people with lives beyond what they do. Beyond the product they produce. We have families, hobbies, goals, dreams, illnesses, exhaustion, depression, anxiety, happiness, pets, children and lives just like yours. Yet the majority of sex workers I know are amazing people who have such compassion for others. Who are giving back behind the scenes to charities, family member and friends. All while being dissected under a microscope of hate.

There is positive vibes in sex work-the media just does not want you to see it.

Through sex work I have been able to explore hobbies I’d never have the time or income to do if I was working a 9-5. I’ve started other businesses. I give back monthly to people I know and do not know in any way I can. I’ve re habbed horses and found them better homes. An expense that never gives back financially. I’m able to provide myself with self care-mental health therapist, massages, quiet no work days, time spent in nature if I need etc. I could keep going but I’m sure those with a brain get the point.

Thank you to those who realize we are human. That sex work is work and that what we all can bring to the table can be life changing. Not only for ourselves but for our clients.

For inside the fact that we as sex workers are not widely accepted in society-but our services are widely used-we have found acceptance to be something we are incredibly good at.

I’ll accept that you like being called a doggie and spanked with a bottle up your ass if you’ll accept that I’m a person-just like you.

MV

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Finding Humor in Adult Work

The other day I tweeted asking for ideas about blogs you all feel would be interesting! I always like hearing what you would like to know more about.  Below Jay expresses his interest in hearing more about humor in adult work.  So lets call this an “Interesting Inquisitions” type of blog series.

IMG_8937I think you NEED a sense of humor to stay in this career path. When dealing with the delicate nature of sex and humanity there are lots of things that can go right…and lots of things that can go wrong. The ability to kind of laugh, take a joke or let things roll off you is important. Therefore you need humor in this industry to stay sane (or some version of sane)  Many speak about getting a “tough skin” being in a business that sells beauty.

Though I like to think (and believe) that it’s not just about beauty here, it’s about brains too. (if you plan to survive that is)

For example just today I and countless other online sex workers received an email about how horrible we are, that we need to repent and are whores. So…there is that…and then there is me laughing. What a way to inspire me for a future clip. -golf clap- LOL

I think humor is very sexy. If you can’t make me laugh long term we probably won’t be talking long. Whether it’s from a humiliating custom/session or just every day comical life-I like to laugh. I try to keep the laughing at others expense to when I’m paid for it…(hehe)

-But I do follow this twitter page, I think it’s called “The Darwin Awards” and it’s full of people doing really stupid things. HAHAHA! Certainly makes me feel better about my level of common sense.

Since many sex workers are alienated and judged extensively (and harshly) by society I think it’s important those who work in adult remain light hear-ted as possible about our career choices. Sex, Fetish, Kink etc is all sought out essentially as a feel good experience and to keep it that way must remain positive as possible.

Not to say that some (or all) of us don’t need a dark room and a different city, state to live in sometimes to get away from society well you have to find the humor in that yourself somehow.

As for what makes me laugh I think that is a broad spectrum. TV show wise I like comedies such as Friends or The Big Bang Theory. My sense of humor ranges form very dry to sadistic. I’m forever changing really. Depending on my mood something may be funny today that is not tomorrow!

Watch out…I’m like a cat…one minute I want you to touch me the other minutes I’m leaving a scar on your hand.

Thanks for the question Jay, enjoy. (I think you and I have a date with spin the bottle custom? Let’s see how funny things can get there -wink)

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The Presence of Personality

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Yesterday I tweeted about social media and personality. Lately I have seen a lot of women complaining venting social media is not helpful to them, twitter is dead, why bother etc.  I joined twitter in April 2010. I’ve been consistently active since. I feel it’s a great place to connect. So there is that word “connect”. I feel it is very important. If you are a domme, a sub, into vanilla or fetish-it does not matter it comes down to a few important words. Connect being one.

You want a fan base yes? you want people to follow you and what you are doing, keep up with your latest updates (blogs, clips, sessions etc) Well, how will you do that? You probably already know that answer…social media. So you pick your poison (twitter, instagram, facebook etc) And you start to carve out who you are, what you like, what you have to offer etc. People stumble across you, get recommended to you, follow you from seeing you live on cam, buying your clips etc. Some will just stay in background not conversing etc. Others will enjoy you so much they decide to tip, spend, support. This is a natural ebb and flow really. Just like any other service people like. Some will be in the background others in the foreground.

Why did they do this-find, follow, support…Well, because you showed your personality. They felt connected. This is not rocket science. (sorry not sorry) The biggest wave in porn is the ability to connect and really get to know people better.

Personality is important. It’s more important than that nude photo you just posted. Than that link to your blog. Adult work, especially online, is becoming more and more about the connection your client base feels to you and your work. They are going to feel connected not by just photos but by your personality. I feel this is a hang up for many. Especially because online perhaps certain aspects of ourselves are either hidden, not as desirable to our market or just don’t line up with work. (This is not any different -in many ways- than other jobs that civilians hold that they can’t come home and discuss their work or private lives clients etc) So therefore you have to become a personality that reflects a different essence of yourself. I can’t hold your hand in this and neither can anyone else. Copying someone else won’t get you very far either. If you want to make adult work work than a natural evolution of self is important. (more on that in a separate soon to come blog.

The point of this is that social media is a huge part of being successful for the long term. When I’m on twitter it’s fun to me but it’s also a part of my work and staying connected. Social media works in so many ways. I responded to a few tweets from people I did not know last week who ended up purchasing custom videos. The longing to feel connected is far from dead. Connection is created by your presence and personality.  This is a lot of work and a lot of every day involvement. Being self employed this is one of the areas that help keep you in the foreground.

This goes for any business really, in a world full of nudity and noise seconds away from a click…there HAS to be something else that creates feeling for those who really are worth investing in. Will that be you?

Anyone can be naked, not everyone can have a personality.  Both is golden in porn.

(Please note these are merely my opinions. I’ve been in the industry going on 9 years now. I’m here because I enjoy what I do and I enjoy connection. This career path is not for the lackluster or half assers. This is serious every day work that pays off in the long run (be smart, save, pay taxes on time) as long as YOU are willing to be personal, connected, self motivated and always willing to learn and evolve.)

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